On My Terms
I’m Caron Harris, founder of On My Terms.
On My Terms was created from my own experience of reaching a point in life where I realised I needed to pause, reflect and ask myself some honest questions.
For a long time, life can become centred around other people, responsibilities and expectations. We can become so used to being there for everyone else that we lose touch with ourselves — our needs, our hopes, our confidence and the things that make us feel truly alive.
I know what it feels like to reach a new chapter and wonder what comes next.
There can be excitement, but there can also be uncertainty. You may find yourself asking:
Who am I now?
What do I want?
What makes me happy?
What does my next chapter look like?
I created On My Terms because I believe these questions deserve space. They deserve honesty, kindness and time.
Your next chapter does not have to be about becoming someone completely different. It can be about reconnecting with the person you have always been, remembering what matters to you and giving yourself permission to explore what you want now.
My own journey has taught me that change does not always happen in one dramatic moment. Sometimes it begins quietly — with a feeling that something needs to shift, a decision to be more honest with yourself or the courage to take one small step in a different direction.
There have been times when I have had to reflect, heal, rebuild my confidence and find my way forward. I have learned that starting again does not mean you have failed. It means you are listening to yourself and recognising that your life can continue to grow and change.
And yet, looking back, I can see that the things that have mattered most throughout every chapter of my life have remained remarkably constant: Family & Friends, Health, Love, Freedom and Purpose.
On My Terms is for women who are ready to explore who they are now and what they want from the next stage of their lives.
It is a space for reflection, encouragement, connection and possibility.
You do not need to have everything worked out. You do not need a perfect plan. You do not need to justify wanting more for yourself.
You are allowed to change your mind.
You are allowed to begin again.
You are allowed to want a life that feels more like your own.
My hope is that On My Terms helps women feel less alone as they navigate change and gives them the encouragement to take their next step — however big or small that step may be.
This is not about following someone else’s version of success. It is about discovering what feels right for you.
Your life is still yours.
Your story is still being written.
And your next chapter can be lived on your terms.