Community rules

Last updated 11 October 2026

On My Terms is a safe, loving and respectful space — for every member, and for Caron and everyone who helps her.

Where these rules apply

• Comments on the Daily Quotes — currently the only place members post to each other.
• Feedback shared with Caron.
• Any contact with Caron or anyone helping her.

The standards

• Be respectful and non-judgemental.
• No diagnosing or “fixing” other members.
• No harassment.
• No unsolicited selling.
• No pressure on anyone to share more than they want to.
• Share feedback kindly and constructively — productive, respectful feedback is always welcome.

How comments work

• Only signed-in members can comment. Other members see your first name and your comment.
• Caron chooses whether she reads each comment before it appears (the usual setting), lets comments appear straight away, or turns comments off.
• Caron can hide any comment at any time.
• Any member can report a comment for Caron to look at. Reports are private.
• You can delete your own comments whenever you like.
• Feedback is private to Caron and is never shown to other members.

Please don't share anything in a comment that you'd rather keep private — your journal is the place for that, and only you can read it.

If the rules are broken

If someone breaks these rules, Caron may hide the comment, send a private reminder, pause their ability to comment or, for serious or repeated breaches, suspend or close the account (see Terms of use). If you think a decision about you was wrong, tell us through the contact form and Caron will look at it again.

A note on support

Caron facilitates this community but is not continuously available, and does not provide crisis support. If you're in crisis, please contact emergency services or a crisis helpline directly — see disclaimers.

If you're in crisis or feel unsafe, please don't wait for a reply here. Call 999 in an emergency, NHS 111 for urgent health advice, or Samaritans free on 116 123, any time of day or night.